Knowing how to seduce a man with words is something that doesn’t always feel comfortable with women.
Women know that their men want them to talk ‘dirty” but don’t necessarily know what to say.
Okay, so you can think of a few dirty phrases but isn’t it going to sound a bit weird just coming out with something sexy or dirty?
Plus, there is that ‘nice girl’ tag.
Well you can be a nice girl during the day and take charge at night. Come on girls, let your hair down and make 2017 your year.
Why Do Men Like Dirty Talk?
He loves that you are ladylike during the day but at night use explicit phrases that drive him wild.
He has a secret and the secret is YOU! No one else knows what you are like behind closed doors and he absolutely loves this.
He also gets immense satisfaction from knowing what he is doing is pleasing you. Men are hard-wired to please us but mixed signals can get in the way of this.
It might seems complicated to us but it’s simply not to him. Men want to please women no matter how well we have evolved in our domestic roles since the dawn of time.
It’s plain and simple and tells him in no uncertain terms that he is doing the right thing and that you are loving it.
If you can confidently use dirty talk to get what you want, well that is just plain seductive. Men are helplessly attracted to women who can express themselves sexually.
When you are talking dirty he knows that you are 100% connected with him.
So often a quiet or silent partner does not convey what they want or how they feel and he is left pretty much guessing and wondering if he is doing the right thing.
Plus, if you are a ‘silent partner,’ how are you feeling right now. It isn’t really working is it?
The video below is an eye opener is you really want to know, how to seduce a man with words, it is worth spending a few minutes watching.
If you’ve ever had a man ask you to “Talk Dirty” to him and didn’t know what to say you MUST watch this video now . . .
If you would rather read the text version, click here
Spice Up Your Sex Life
He loves it because it signals to him that you know what you want and he will do his utmost to please you.
It makes sex more fun. Sex in silence is a turn off and more of a chore that an enjoyable experience. If he can hear you dirty talking, he knows that you’re enjoying it too.
Dirty talking also gives him the signal that he is doing the right things and he will in turn have more confidence to try or suggest new things.
The thing is, you can’t fake dirty talk . You need to know what to say and how to say it with meaning. The Language of Desire will help you get there and have you using dirty talking like you never thought possible.
Seduction – As Well As Words
It is a power or is it an art? What is the secret, that’s what everyone wants to know?
Seduction in this instance is using the mind and words to create a sexual energy. If your head is in the right place with the words, it will set the scene.
Sure it is physical however it is the sexual allure and the signal that the woman creates that is the true power of seduction.
Seduction should be a slow and sensuous experience and never rushed.
It is not about gratification but about maintaining the tension which creates the energy – don’t let the energy go.
By the way, if you are giving off a negative signal forget seduction.
A Glance Across A Crowded Room
You see him across a crowded room, no this is not a scene from a movie, this does happen. You suddenly clap eyes on him and it is almost an accidental glance… but, he notices and then you look down. Some moments later, look again, but this time it is on purpose and hold that gaze for a bit longer, then look away again.
Add a little hint of a smile.
It’s called flirting. Remember that when you do seduce a man, he needs to think he has done the seducing. You know better but that’s our power, girls. Let him feel he has been the seducer. It will make him happy and you get what you want, right?
Looking Good There…
Men love curves on their women and are more interested in the confidence that a woman has, than if she is any particular shape or size. That is largely us women placing those restrictions on ourselves.
Wear something that suits your body shape.
He won’t be left guessing what you want when you can communicate and tell him what you want. Oh Yeah!
Feeling sexy will certainly put you right in the mood for seduction. You know you can look sexy and you can feel sexy but you also need to communicate sexy.
Right Place, Right Time…
There’s nothing wrong with creating a romantic environment.
Romance is not seduction but there’s no harm at all in creating a space where it is easy to make seduction a happening thing.
A little dim lighting and some scented candles will help to set the scene.
Seduce A Man With Words – Get Started
If you have watched the video you will understand how important the language of desire really is.
OK, it’s time to get started.
Send a text to your object of desire, even if you are in the same room, even in a crowded room, with messages of seduction. In fact in a crowded room makes it all the more seductive.
Try it and see what happens. Oh La La!
Talking dirty and engaging with your man 100% in the present, activates chemicals in his brain that makes some big inroads into triggers for his sex drive. Who would have guessed that there is some Science behind talking dirty?
Remember, nice girl during the day and take charge at night. You can do it.
Here is a man’s perspective on talking dirty. You’ll never be stuck for words again!