Why Men Lie To Women
Do you want to know why men lie?… and I’m really talking relationships not those little white lies. You know what I mean.
For women, one of the most important qualities in a relationship is trust because without it there is no relationship.
It is very hard to recover from trust issues.
Have you ever had your heart broken by a man telling lies?
When a man who’s in a relationship looks at (or “ogles”) another woman it
A.) He wants to cheat and will do so if he can “get away” with it.
B.) He’s comparing how you look to this other woman and wondering if he can
C.) He’s “storing her away” in his mind for future fantasies.
D.) He’s a red blooded male (and “all men look” so it means nothing at all.)
Got your answer? Confident you know which one it is?
OK, the *real* answer is…
See, the fact is ALL guys look at other women every day no matter how in love
they are and no matter how gorgeous a man’s wife or girlfriend is…
But the reason WHY a guy looks can be *completely innocent*…
Or can be a huge red flag that something is *wrong* in your relationship and
this guy just can’t be trusted.
How do you find out which one it is?
You don’t do it by asking your guy.
Fact is, if you ask a guy why he looks at other women he’s going to clam up
and LIE to you (he might deny he ever even looked in the first place.)
Nope, the way you find out the TRUTH…
Is by going and watching this astonishing video by Michael Fiore right now…
Knowing why men lie so much may help women from making the wrong choices and getting hurt. It is not always easy to spot the lies and there is a world of difference between a little white lie and a lie that undermines the trust in a relationship.
It is knowing how to spot the difference between the two.
Those Little White Ones
We are all familiar with the little white lies that men tell and frankly sometimes it is just to save a potentially explosive situation, for example, ‘Does my behind/ass/bottom look big in this?’ is a perfect example.
This is a no win situation so he lies to save a potential argument and who could blame him really.
Of course don’t forget that he loves you even if the said ‘behind’ doesn’t look at it’s perky best but he knows the best way to keep the peace is to say that it looks great.
A better way to go about this for women, would be to give him a choice between two outfits, not too hard to make a decision and lie averted.
This is More Serious
Are you thinking that your man has cheated on you or just isn’t interested in you anymore? It’s a horrible feeling.
Quite often and you really do know this, if you suspect something is amiss there is good reason for it.
You have that nagging, intuitive feeling that something is not right. If he has been especially vague, for example, ‘I don’t know when the meeting ends and I won’t be able to call you. In fact, I’m not even sure where the meeting will be until I get to work.’
This Means Alarm Bells
It can be tricky to decide if you are being paranoid but remember that if the cheater thinks his lies are working he will keep lying and this can go on for years and years.
This can equate to having your head stuck in the sand and is difficult to deal with but don’t enable the lying by ignoring it or pretending it isn’t happening.
Treat yourself with respect, even if he isn’t.
Insecurity Is An Issue
Men will sometimes lie because of their own insecurity, so they will lie about their income or what they can bench press or something else to show how cool they are.
Often this is to impress a woman but can also be to impress his mates.
Mates are pretty good at detecting the “bleep” but lying at the beginning of a relationship or just on a date is not uncommon.
No one want to be lied to but as a female I think it is good to have a healthy amount of skepticism if you get the hunch that everything is not as it seems.
Just Friends – Hmm
He has a female friend he has known for years and insists it is a platonic friendship.
That’s fine and it may be just that but if you have that nagging feeling that he is lying you owe it to yourself to ask him a few questions.
I Love You
Those three little words can be so troublesome at times.
Every woman wants to hear the man of her dreams say those words but that should come naturally and with time.
If you have just met someone and those three little words pop out pretty much straightaway you can be assume that it is a lie and it’s purpose is pretty clear.
Women fall for this.
Of course it is nice feeling loved but beware as there are men that specialize in this.
If you keep choosing the same type of man, the same I Love You lie will perpetuate.
Okay, this is a pretty one sided argument about why men lie so much as it is from the perspective of a female and I know there are males out there who will have a different take on things and that is fine. It is always helpful to read and learn more about what the other half is thinking.
For most cases though it is about trust so I’m not really talking about the white lies here but the bigger lies that can break hearts and ruin relationships.
Watching Michael’s videos will give you the perspective from a male and that is pure gold. Michael is a relationship expert and will help you find answers.
In this video Micheal specifically details How to Know if a Man Really Loves You. Get past the lies.
There are 7 simple questions that Michael presents to help give you the answers you need.
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